Wheres the Infamous G-Spot?
The term "G-Spot" was first introduced to the public at large in the book, "The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality" in the 1980s. It referred to an article from 1950 in the International Journal of Sexology in which gynecologist, Dr. Ernest Grafenberg wrote about erotic sensitivity along the anterior vaginal wall.
While many people
have read or heard about Grafenberg, few have read his actual words.
In reality, Grafenberg only uses the word "spot" twice
and he uses it to make the opposite point to the way it has been
popularly used. He states that "there is no spot in the female
body, from which sexual desire could not be aroused. Innumerable
erotogenic spots are distributed all over the body, from where sexual
satisfaction can be elicited; these are so many that we can almost
say that there is no part of the female body which does not give
sexual response, the partner has only to find the erotogenic zones."
The G-Spot is said to be a sensitive area just behind the front wall of the vagina, between the back of the pubic bone and the cervix. Beverly Whipple, a certified sex educator and counselor, and John D. Perry, an ordained minister, psychologist, and sexologist, named the G-Spot after gynecologist Ernest Grafenberg (1881-1957).
was the first modern physician to describe the area and argue for
its importance in female sexual pleasure. His claim is that when
this spot is stimulated during sex through vaginal penetration of
some kind (fingers during masturbation, penis or other object partly
thrusting into the vagina), some women have an orgasm. This orgasm
may include a gush of fluid from the urethra -- sometimes called
ejaculation -- however, many
experts do not agree on this. Many gynecologists and physiologist still argue.
There has been a large amount of controversy among sex researchers regarding this theory. For women who have felt this gush of urethral fluid, or for those who have found a new pleasure spot, having a name for it confirms their experience.
But remember, not all women are sensitive in this area, so be careful not to set up unrealistic expectations for yourself. Try it out; if it works, great, if it doesn't seem sensitive, try to find the spot(s) that are right for you!
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